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生活中的5个球2 A# O- i; e4 \) F" l
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson0 j* _" X t ^# E: w
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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5 q9 @4 G# O9 g; x% w! V7 O0 `你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。$ I( J3 F8 L! f1 @- u/ s( \
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。, y2 d/ |& q& ~' \
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怎样才能做好?
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3 u( b, W) @; ~$ g1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。$ u" z4 k* G% O7 k
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。
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3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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- S9 A! S' K8 \6 @% q' Y( j4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。* C4 L, E0 _& N" j3 e! T! z" b
0 V* q! y9 h# D) L5 z6 q* @5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。% P2 y ]4 y' T6 w7 p, C
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。( n7 _) m# Y# h J; |' W; D" {
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 / B% v- K" h2 S8 @9 e" I" Q
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。: a* N Z0 N& \1 Y+ X/ z: d
6 F7 W6 f! Z( g# r/ @9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。- P Q i, _" v6 _ u
" k/ V" V. x7 A4 J' c o10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。& V0 J6 T9 v2 M" p; P2 g+ Q9 c
( q" n% h, @3 i. h: l. ~11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。: \: H- z4 }$ n: Y: s! q2 |
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' J- M, }( n: `6 M. v! @7 r/ ~6 B原文:- _8 v& u2 \1 Z ]- H
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Five Balls Of Life
8 b+ H3 o C. h8 |; [* u7 Q5 gThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.# |1 H, A) I. E" C5 B
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.' z/ P) T# I+ j8 B& |- A5 \3 u
You name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.9 U" P# y/ i7 ]& G; L
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+ e p, ]% S" O+ g) fYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.- w5 N0 |. W: f2 [& k( N
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.7 I. J0 h# o" w) A% D/ S2 s# N+ @
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.& k6 n5 t" ]$ e* ?& G0 D, `( c8 \
7 e% Y/ O ^9 [& W. u3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.% C l! i- f& J" X$ J) h& U
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.$ s5 Q, j* k- h U. o8 N5 c
' s H/ ~4 u. k5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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! L, V4 `4 ]0 U* a: `/ H6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.' `5 D% N( V) Z$ b9 I2 H! V3 U
# @% N1 {7 E4 s' {3 g W3 K7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.# h- s+ O; N2 w @$ W
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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! J9 N& Z! h' e0 W# a10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated./ v/ y0 h2 y2 Q/ E" z P, A' z
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11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.0 _1 Y3 T- e* k$ n+ _
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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