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生活中的5个球" E- L# j8 q u6 D/ j: e: W
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可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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4 V, w n0 h4 V) S+ B# f设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。: f5 w$ S9 k9 F: s
( ^3 i& N V( G. u9 E0 {: R你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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, x7 ~! d) N, Z9 D! A# _怎样才能做好?5 ~4 _, g' H3 V2 W+ J
) Y7 k; A6 [5 i4 v( v1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。* }" q8 ^; H1 @6 O; H/ ^
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2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。' \' \( [3 D* a1 V
$ B: n, X- E) M/ h3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。
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4 ?/ @6 |9 _* K6 T! X" q4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。% D' P4 e5 X4 V
! Y9 B+ C7 E) c9 }4 Z5 r5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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# p# A7 g2 ]' d: h- D: y% x7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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" D5 L5 p" b. M) j8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。4 |. h$ C0 _' d6 Y6 O4 x
( |3 _7 X/ D# |& m% m/ o+ a" n9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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& k1 \3 J: `2 m6 F1 i" |12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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原文:2 w) w+ b' k- x4 M
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Five Balls Of Life J# s3 c/ d Z4 Q! F7 A
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson., _% y- v) c$ Q" |
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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8 ?% K. j. g+ j. }4 k# w- iImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
# r- [8 S( I2 Z! CYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.- a7 E# Q6 B" h2 h2 U8 V a( z
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?5 p5 Y$ V8 o' h" k% j* S) a# F+ U
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1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.9 s8 N+ k3 w: |( l. ?! e! ^* p r
, m$ e, ?# s: ]8 i# ]: `2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.
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6 r1 U: C, g( {$ x( D# J; s3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.1 _! X' e" I5 \* g. v
" O8 z. {" X$ Z4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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# x, s0 g$ H) A7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.2 z6 ^4 J" l+ b, b$ \
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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1 Y& {# y: F& @, r10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. t2 M+ R3 x' N/ z
$ e! V5 N; G6 l3 l% A11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.6 M" ?) T. B o/ ^! L
! \5 C$ u2 e1 M7 H3 E" N12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.
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