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生活中的5个球
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% ^( c1 d2 E& e" P6 P2 f. H+ }) J可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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: ?' N# \) N" M% I8 x" ^5 m设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。
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& g% |6 T/ t; k$ U你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。% Q4 Q7 k) p7 @* {" V) Y( u) R, d! M
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。( X* ^; e2 G5 w) D
$ i D% n& J% i2 O4 }* D5 I怎样才能做好?
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; f; H$ F8 c2 o* J1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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: h5 e4 p7 Z K9 V8 o2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。- x- \8 t3 x' H- [9 Q& Q( ?0 U
1 ]: q. q+ b- {5 \/ _3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。" a5 V- C# H7 V/ {0 S8 s
\1 l% B/ }- o4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。9 L% U0 z) {1 w+ f% y
# c, J( d' z2 }. E% W# h& u& ]( K$ C5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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( C/ w9 b9 r2 {! b5 Y7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。 ?6 x; T, v& r+ f; J% S p
# E4 Z$ P, Y& c4 ]2 Z$ g" x" Q8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。
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9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。" u& { W/ t1 T4 y4 v) L* E. }/ [! B
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10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。- S6 h! u7 Y* w: b% i) B2 a
: s y) u% h: s& _$ n12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。2 m# m2 L' Q9 b! W8 e
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原文:6 ]7 i4 E' a/ E* [ x
. y( ?) q1 I4 B( l; zFive Balls Of Life
/ [4 P8 S: a; {1 U$ ZThis was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.
! s6 D( {& z. ]) k4 E/ P0 V3 zIt was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:
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7 l: ~" {4 u" J8 ?8 dImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
3 Z& d# r, X3 z! C/ A! e7 ~2 mYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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4 p1 |8 d- T/ ZYou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.( ~2 g. A. B1 B7 v% C; U2 N8 l; N- V# ]
They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How?. H2 L' d) f$ i }" D
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( x/ @- W4 k9 X5 M* }+ e9 b. @! V1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.
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2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.$ G$ f3 t9 M9 G/ M6 ~! ~) A
" T4 }1 h# w' O5 Y- z: R3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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( |/ N: x3 j" w! d" L& V4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.- e) [# U' r( L# L6 V9 \ ~' X5 o
% R, R2 L; h5 H$ X! i0 e- d7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.4 L: y' P3 \2 X
* z/ R5 K4 U+ j& ?8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
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9 o e7 y4 `$ r& v: s- N& t5 N! w" P9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.
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10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.& [2 Q* D3 f, G! i. b, ^- P; r
& f7 [" Q7 O8 p( C7 y, o11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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: L8 c: b# |; k! ^" g7 X. |3 V12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.4 E5 ?2 y E% M. y" b; q+ O5 S" K2 A
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